This may sound OK when looked at in isolation....
Oli is 3
He can't drive a motor bike
Never in a million years or in the stuff of nightmares did I think that I would need to sit down with my 3 year old and let him know he was not to go anywhere, with anyone before checking with me first. Especially on a motorbike , without a helmet. Sending his 6 year old brother to tell me as he is whizzing out the driveway is not the way to go.
His girlfriend is 8 years older ( she is his mates sister , the end to many good friendships). He often gets dressed all in red so he looks like a ninja? and pops off to see his girl friend. I can see him from the kitchen window in the garden.
Final words from Oli " mum I was wearing sunscreen"
I will never be a true local.